Dating,
slowed down.
No swiping. No feed. No endless choices. Just one person worth getting to know — introduced every Sunday.
Dating shouldn't feel like shopping.
Modern dating apps give you more and more choices — and somehow
make it harder to actually get to know someone. Profiles judged
in two seconds. Conversations that go nowhere. A feed that never ends.
Sundae takes the opposite approach. One match a week. Personality
before photos. And enough time to see where something could go.
One week.
One person.
You take a short personality test once. After that, Sundae does the choosing — and gives you something rare in dating: time.
Your match arrives
Every Sunday, Sundae introduces you to one person chosen for you — based on your personality, your preferences and how close you are.
That's it. Nothing to scroll
There are no other profiles to browse or rate. One person, one conversation, and a real reason to look closer.
Personality comes first
Their photo starts blurred. You get to know how someone thinks and talks before you know exactly what they look like.
Sundae learns
After each match you answer a few quiet questions. Every answer helps the next Sunday land a little closer.
Give it a week.
Getting to know someone doesn't have to happen in one conversation. Every match gets seven days to breathe.
Don't judge a book by its cover.
Your match's photo starts blurred. You get their personality, their prompts and their interests first — and the photo comes into focus once you've both really started talking.
- A short one-time personality test, not a questionnaire every day
- Prompts and interests instead of a highlight reel
- The photo reveals gradually as the conversation gets going
Every match teaches Sundae something.
Sundae doesn't match you once and forget about it. Your answers, your conversations and your feedback keep shaping what compatibility actually means for you.
See yourself more clearly.
The more you date on Sundae, the more it can show you — your personality profile, the traits people notice in you, and gentle pointers on what tends to work for you.
Your personality
A calm read on how you connect — built from your test, not a label.
Traits people notice
Earned from real feedback after your matches — never self-declared.
For you
With Sundae+, a few honest observations on your conversations and what your matches tend to have in common.
A little more, for the curious.
Sundae works fully for free. Sundae+ is optional — it adds depth for people who want to understand their matches, and themselves, a bit better.
Your match's full profile
See everything they've filled in, not just the essentials.
Deeper personality insights
A fuller picture of how you connect and where you differ.
Personalised recommendations
Quiet, specific suggestions based on your real matches.
Support a calmer way to date
No ads, no selling attention. Sundae+ is how Sundae stays independent.
Cancel anytime. Billed through your app store.
Join the waitlistPricing shown for Germany and may vary by region and store. Sundae+ never changes who you're matched with — only how much you can see.
Built to feel calm.
A slower app is a safer app. Fewer strangers, more context, and straightforward tools when something's off.
One match at a time
No open inbox. You're only ever in one conversation, with one person.
Photos stay blurred
Appearance is revealed gradually, once there's an actual conversation.
Block & report
One tap ends a match, blocks the person and sends a report to our team.
Pause anytime
Turn matching off for a week or a month without deleting anything.
18+ only
Sundae is for adults. Accounts that break the rules are removed.
Your data, your call
Export or delete your account and photos from Settings, whenever you want.
Good to know.
What if I don't get a match one Sunday?
It happens, especially early on or in smaller cities. Sundae keeps looking and introduces someone as soon as there's a good fit — you don't have to do anything.
Can I get more than one match a week?
No. One match per weekly cycle is the whole idea. If a match ends early, you'll usually wait until the next Sunday.
When is the photo revealed?
Gradually, once both of you have sent a few messages — or after a set amount of time. It's designed so appearance isn't the first thing you react to.
Is Sundae free?
Yes. Matching, chatting and your core insights are free. Sundae+ (2,99 € / month) adds optional depth and helps keep Sundae independent.
What data does Sundae collect?
The essentials to match you: your profile, personality answers, approximate location and your feedback. The details are in our Privacy Policy.
Which platforms is Sundae on?
Sundae is a mobile app for iOS and Android, in English and German. Join the waitlist to hear when it opens in your city.
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slow down?
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